so anyways, anj WAITED for me for almost three whole hours so we could go get our eyebrows threaded at little india. her sister's coming back soon from london or someplace and she wants to pretty herself up, because in her words, her sister always looks "perfect".
yup and after that we went to komala's again! hahah and I ordered the same thing and we sat in the same place and oh my but aren't I a creature of habit.
I think school just spoils everything. it puts you in a bad mood all the time and just switches off the desire for you to learn anything. unless you're in arts. because I personally find the subjects more interesting. but I'd probably only be able to take it at an interest level. plus, I still don't understand why we have to know that oxygen is the last electron acceptor in oxidative phosphorylation. being in school just ruins the whole day. there are too many people. I was not meant to be around people. I swear I'm schizo.
but anj rocks hahah she actually told zheng to be nice to me. so sweet right?
and we were swapping stories about stupid guys who are sweet sometimes and how it's really suprising because they're usually not. and how most guys usually pull your pigtails to tell you you're their friend. stupid karl.
and while we were walking back to the little india mrt station, they were playing the ANJALI SONG! REALLY LOUDLY hahahah it's a sign! omg it was damn funny apparently nik's mom burst out into that song when she told her that she was out with anjali. hahah these poor people with song names. like mandy and candy and melody and grace and laura hahahah.
ooh and let me tell you a story! --
(anj is leaning on abbie's not very high shoulder. abbie's alot shorter than anj.)
anj: you know, if you grew a few more inches you'd make a pretty good boyfriend.
abbie: *with her mischievious smile*... I don't know if I should say this but
anj: what? say!
abbie: er.. a few inches where?
eeaagh! hahah and when anj was telling me that story she shouted at abbie: what were you thinking?
and I said: obviously not what you were thinking.
so abbie asked: are you thinking what I'm thinking B1? and I just had to replied: I think I am B2.
so anj made a passing remark (or so I thought): hey guess what? they're both bananas.
at first I thought she was just being silly, but then abbie went: eeagh! and then my mind when click and I went: eeaaagh!
EVIL!! they've contaminated me!!
anyway, i'm not as dirty minded as mel put it out to be.
oh.
and we were having this gp debate today. about the political system by mill and aristotle i think. about how much individual freedom the state should present.
and then the debate became really sidetracked about premaritial sex.
then like the gp woman polled the guys and asked how many of them are against it. an no one did anything. and then she asked how many girls were pro premaritial sex. and vid went "eeeyur.." in a typical if-you-own-up-all-the-20-girls-in-the-class-will-think-your're-cheap way. so no one said anything.
so it seemed like all the guys were pro, and the girls anti.
sad how quiet we are. if a guy owned up, he'd be considered prude.
if a girl owned up, she'd be called a slut.
at least some people are more open about it.
zach: premaritial sex is hardly reckless.. it gives the person more responsibility..
zheng: no what. if i have sex with a girl, and she doesn't get pregnant, then i have no more responsibility what...
*whole big uproar by the girls in the class*
how do you manage to keep yourself in these kind of things, zheng?
but actually, on the whole issue..
i don't know. maybe it's the whole desire to rebel, but what's so bad about premaritial sex..?
i don't exactly advocate it.. but i don't condone it either. i mean, people should just be left alone to do what they want to.
if someone i knew came up to me and told me that she was going to do it, i would just tell her to stay safe and have fun.
ok, that sounded cheap.
but the point i'm trying to make here is that there's no point in the state trying to control people and prevent them from having premaritial sex.
what are they going to do?
ask for your marriage certificate if you're going into hotel 81 with a guy for the night?
or only sell condoms if you show up with your wife to prevent infidelity?
the most they can do is make sure their citizens stay safe.
by advocating bith control and stuff.
the herd mentality of having 19 other girls in the class is that sometimes, we get too righteous with ourselves and insist that all 20 of us would end up virgins till our wedding day.
gime me a break.
